Daughter Xenia sent me a text message this morning with the following picture and text:
My art is in the Anchorage museum with the Alaska Positive show!
Here is info about the show. Here is the listing of all the exhibits.
I am very proud.
Daughter Xenia sent me a text message this morning with the following picture and text:
My art is in the Anchorage museum with the Alaska Positive show!
Here is info about the show. Here is the listing of all the exhibits.
I am very proud.
Background:
And back to present day for a comment from Katy Zatsick on Facebook:
Barbara, don’t know if you remember when I asked Joe to help me get Pink Smoke? 2005. There is now a movie called “Pink Smoke over the Vatican” which is the herstory of our RC women priest movement (a movement for justice and authority in the most misogynist institution to exist). The Pink Smoke in Chicago is in it! I get to tell the story of how it came to be as I have shown the movie to 3 groups so far and it is scheduled to be shown here in SCC next Sunday! And it all came to be because of the boomer shoot.
If you watch the slide show here long enough you will see a pot of pink smoke. I helped make that happen.
Barb L. and I were chatting with some friends last night and a woman who sometimes teaches classes on various sex techniques used the word compersion in a conversation. I had not heard of it before. The definition is sometimes given as the opposite of jealousy. Or even “a fiery core of passion” at seeing your “significant other” with a lover.
I suppose it is significant that jealousy is a far better known word than its opposite.
Or KH waves, or a KH instability. It’s a result of two distinct layers in a fluid traveling at different velocities. You’ll see it in rivers and streams, between bands in the atmospheres of Jupiter and Saturn, in your coffee cup, etc. In this case it’s made visible by the bottom layer being cloud, interacting with a clear layer above. The wave pattern extends from one side of the photo to the other. I had to darken the image a lot to bring out the detail. Through my polarizing glasses the waves could be seen curling in on themselves more dramatically. For really good detail in sky photos you need a polarizer, and probably a UV filter too, but my little point-and-shoot isn’t set up for such things. These KH waves are over the Clearwater River canyon above Lewiston, Idaho, seen from the south end of Moscow on my way to work the other day.
Yesterday Barb L. and I went snowshoeing near Snoqualmie Pass. I had suggested we try it a couple months ago then just before Christmas Ry sent me an email tip about the Forest Service offering Guided Snowshoe Walks. I forwarded it on to Barb who, being the proactive person that she is, made the reservations for us.
I have done a fair amount of snowshoeing (mostly accessing Boomershoot territory during the winter months) but Barb had not done any. My snowshoes are rather old and I knew the newer kind probably were a lot better and wanted to see and try them out before buying a new pair.
The trail we were on did not require snowshoes:![]()
I would have been fine with my normal size 14 hiking boots. But we went off trail a little bit and I also got to experience walking in the newer type of snowshoes.
Here are some pictures (picture below by Barb. All others by me):
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Barb’s view of her feet. She is over 6′ tall so the sense of height is well founded.
There were other things that were also quite pleasant to look at:
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The restroom was closed for the winter.
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A mother brought her child along.![]()
I didn’t know that some woodpeckers made rectangular holes.![]()
We saw some people making snow caves.![]()
We got some short history lessons as well.![]()
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We had left a very foggy Bellevue and had beautiful crystal clear sky on our walk. As we returned to the lower elevation it was like driving into a wall of dreariness.
My mother died December 29th, 2012. Here are her obituary and a few pictures:
Ellen Huffman passed away due to congestive heart failure and pneumonia at the age of 87, surrounded by family members at St. Joseph Regional Medical Center in Lewiston, ID on December 29, 2012. She was born, Grace Ellen King at Gritman Medical Center in Moscow, ID on July 18, 1925 to Charlotte Verna Davies King and Raymond McKinley King.
The family farmed near Moscow in the community of Joel. Her father was in poor health due to tuberculosis, so they moved to Long Beach, California where Ellen attended grade school. Her father died when she was 7 years old. Ellen graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School in Long Beach in 1943.
She went to a trade school and learned how to operate computer keypunch machines, comptometers and other business machines. She then worked at Bethlehem Steel in Alameda, CA as a keypunch operator until she had sufficient resources to proceed with her education.
She attended school at Washington State College in Pullman, WA for a short time before moving back to California. She then studied at Woodbury Business College in Burbank, CA where she completed her studies in bookkeeping.
She worked at Arthur A. Havens Co in Los Angeles before moving to Riverside, CA where she worked at Sears Roebuck in their auditing department.
She married Lowell Huffman on February 14, 1954 in Redlands, CA.
In the early years of their marriage, they farmed near Cavendish, ID in the summers while returning to California in the winter to find work.
After they had children in school, the family stayed in Idaho year round. The farm continued to grow as did the family with the birth of three children, Joe, Doug and Gary. After buying property, Ellen helped build the home where she would live from 1969 until the end of her days.
Ellen was an active member of the Teakean Community club for nearly 50 years and a member of the local Extension Club for many years.
She enjoyed knitting, sewing, quilting and other craft work. She made many quilts for friends, children and grandchildren. She enjoyed genealogy and did extensive research on her and her husband’s family tree.
She is survived by her husband, Lowell at the family home in Cavendish, three sons, Joe Huffman of Kirkland, WA, Doug Huffman and wife Julie of Cavendish, and Gary Huffman also of Cavendish. She is also survived by six grandchildren, James Huffman-Scott and wife Kelsey of Bellevue, WA, Kimberly Huffman-Scott of Troy, Xenia Vlieger and husband John of Anchorage, AK, Amy Faragher and husband Nathan of Orem, UT, Lisa Huffman of Kent, WA, Brad Huffman of Moscow and one great grandchild.
She was preceded in death by her parents and brother Louis King.
At her request, there will be no formal service.
1945 while at Washington State College (now Washington State University).
Mom, me, Dad on August 20, 1976
February 1999. 45th Wedding anniversary.
December 24, 2012. One of the last few pictures taken of her.
I have to think about it. This is Wednesday, so it had to be Monday night. I had a normal day at work, but when I got home I started to feel a bit uncomfortable, in a vague sort of way. Then it got more uncomfortable.
Son and I were watching a movie (Loopers – not bad either) and after getting up to get a drink of water, it got very uncomfortable. I told Son; “I don’t think I’ll be watching the rest of the movie.”
Then it was Armageddon. It came on so exponentially fast I didn’t realize that all I really had to do was puke. I remember saying something like “I think I’m dying” between moans, and then things went the way of the classic, closing down tunnel vision people talk about as a result of being under high Gs. The world went dark, and as I went under, in the sort of agony that brings thoughts of death being a sweet gift of relief, I don’t know if I said it but I remember thinking it, very deliberately, and it was sort of printed in bright letters over my endarkened vision;
I DON’T WANT TO GO OUT LIKE THIS
In upper case letters just like that. Now I think I know exactly what it’s like to die a very quick and agonizing death, ’cause essentially that’s what I did, only I woke up later, in a dream. My wife was slapping my face, trying to get my attention like you see in the movies (what else could she do?) but I was still dreaming. When I noticed wetness on the side of my face that was against the floor, and that my sinuses were packed full of liquid, I said dreamily, and to no one in particular “I think I vomited”.
Waking up in a pool of your own vomit, and with your sinuses full of vomit, is something we’ve all heard tell about, but I’d never done it before. Never even came close before. It wasn’t nearly as bad though, not by a long shot, as the going down part. But it wasn’t over.
Oh no. I’ll just say “both ends” and leave it at that (PV/PD). So my wife and kids sort of freaked out I suppose, and so did I. Phone calls were made and crews showed up, and well, right now I’m just fine and dandy. They say that a “single episode” like this is not uncommon, and not necessarily indicative of anything but some immediate GI distress. I got hauled in, poked, bled and prodded, EKG’d, x-rayed and whatnot, and everything is fine. They seemed surprised in fact, that my BP and heart rate, glucose level and everything was all so good. I guess a fart of my oldness is suppose to be more deteriorated.
When I told a nurse I was cold, she said my skin was warm (still in the process of getting over the bout). I told her that it made sense – that if your skin is hot, you’re losing more heat, and so you’ll feel cold. Your heat sense registers direction-of-flow (gain or loss) more than it registers temperature. I would have expected her to understand that, but it seemed a new concept to her. How many times have you hugged your spouse, and she says you feel cold, while you say she feels warm, or visa versa? That’s what’s going on there, and if you think about it from a survival point of view it makes sense.
And here’s a thing about negotiations. They (both my wife and the doctors)wanted very much to keep me at hospital overnight. They all said so several times, but I wanted to go home. I knew that I could have said simply, “No way. I’m going home and that’s that” and I was prepared to do it if needed, but but instead all I said was stuff like, “I’d rather not stay” and “I think I made a big compromise even coming here” and “all I really need is water and some sleep”. They took my wife out of the room to talk about it for a bit and then THEY decided I could go home, see.
Twenty four hours mostly sleeping and I’m a new man. I’d tap dance right now if I’d ever learned how. So remember, if you’re having problems and things seem to be going from bad to worse, well; cheer up– You’ll soon be dead.
I work in downtown Seattle. I don’t like cities in general because I have strong introvert tendencies and crowds of people “drain my energy”. Go to a lower, more detailed, and less personal, level and it just gets worse.
This happened January 1st in a place I walk through twice a day:
Several shots were fired inside the Westlake bus tunnel in downtown Seattle Tuesday night, according to the Seattle Police Department. But, officers were unable to turn up any suspects, witnesses or victims.
Two bike officers heard the shots while patrolling Westlake Park around 11:40 p.m.
Several people were running out of the Metro tunnel when the officers arrived. But, the man officers stopped said he only heard the shots and didn’t see the shooting.
Officers found six bullet casings and fragments on the tunnel’s mezzanine level and are reviewing surveillance video in an attempt to come up with any additional information.
Within the last few months the bank, essentially across the street from where I work and where I do most of my banking was robbed at gunpoint and there was a shooting in the hallway I traverse to get to the pizza place in the mall where I frequently get lunch.
This morning as I was riding to work the bus was stopped and could not enter the Westlake tunnel station where I usually get off. There was a fire in the tunnel and it was being evacuated.
Two years ago this happened in that tunnel where I get on and off my bus.
Had someone been kicking a 15-year old girl in the head while she was on the ground when I was around and within range they likely would have been shot (the guards just a few feet away doing nothing could have been collateral damage that I wouldn’t have been too concerned about at the moment—They have standing orders to “observe and report”). That would make for a very messed up existence for weeks and perhaps years for me.
I just want to go home to Idaho away from everyone but a few close friends and do something safe in the middle of a 100 acre field. Something like play with explosives.
I see people every day who should be pepper sprayed. The world would be a better place if someone just hosed them down.
Greg Hamilton
January 5, 2012
[While Greg was almost for certain exaggerating to make a point it is also true he goes places and does things as part of his “continuing education” that most “ordinary people” would not do.
It’s always a pleasure to take a class from Greg. He says things in a succinct, humorous, and insightful manner that makes the lesson stick.
Yesterday I was retaking a two day class I had taken in the late 90’s. Last time it was with my son James and daughter Kim. This time it was with Barb L. and her kids. Even though I had basically not practiced anything from this class in well over a decade it still came right back and I was anticipating the next lessons and was able to coach other students who were my “sparing partners” when they didn’t quite get it right.
Insights Training. Highly recommended.—Joe]
We need Liberal control, not gun control in order to save lives.
Robert J. Avrech
Emmy Award winning screenwriter. Religious Zionist. Republican. Movie fanatic. Gun owner.
December 26, 2012
Comment to Stalked: Girl Without A Gun
[There is more than a little truth to this statement. The liberal agenda enables and emboldens criminals both on the streets and in control of the power of the state.
Reading the post made me think of Barb L. and her “I can’t wait until he is my ex” husband (as she described her husband in the first few minutes of our first date). Her situation probably wasn’t as bad as the one detailed in the post but still she “got her affairs in order” before the divorce papers were served on him because she believed the chances were significantly greater than zero that he would kill her after he was served.
The papers were served several months ago and Barb’s anxiety has decreased some. We seldom talk about it but it’s not something I ever forget. We recently found out that he knows she is “seeing someone” and he knows my name.
Every visit to her place, every time she visits me, every time we see each other at lunch I wonder if he or a friend is watching. He certainly knows where she lives and works but does he know where I live and work too? Would he be able to find her and the kids at my place if things ever “got ugly”? Sometimes people “raise their eyebrow” when they get hints as to the extent I safeguard the address of my residence but this is one of those times I’m glad I have.
I go to the observation deck of my clock tower when I hear her car drive up and as she leaves my place to make sure she makes it across the parking lot safely. As far as I’m concerned it’s a known distance range and if I can see it with my naked eye I can hit it. Her 300 pound “I can’t wait until he is my ex” husband would be easily visible, even without my glasses, in the parking lot.
I’ve taught her how to use a gun and she, her children, and I will soon be taking an Insights class together. The best way to save lives is to be responsible for our own safety. Acquiring the skills and tools to do that effectively are an essential part of being responsible adults. Many liberals want to do away with that. This has and will cost many lives.—Joe]
Some men are alive simply because it is against the law to kill them.
Edward W. Howe
[I have a funny story to tell that involves this quote on a couple of t-shirts. But ask me in person sometime. It wouldn’t be appropriate to put it on the web.—Joe]
I spent New Years Eve with Barb L. and her family. I was told not to bring anything but didn’t think that was right so I brought something to snack on. This was one of those things that you just throw together with stuff you found in the cupboard thinking, “It probably will be okay.”
There is a fair chance Barb was just being nice or it was so she could put it on her “Don’t List” but she asked me for the recipe.
Here it is:
3 Cups water
1 Cup lentils
3/4 Cup split peas
1/4 Cup brown rice
1 teaspoon garlic salt
1 Cup shredded cheddar cheeseCombine all ingredients except the cheese and garlic salt in a pressure cooker and bring up to pressure.
Cook for 10 minutes, stir in garlic salt, and put in a glass serving dish.
Spread cheese on top, cover, and cook on high in the microwave for 60 seconds.
Serve with Tostitos with Hint of Lime.
Dating you has somehow made me a dude magnet.
Barb L.
Via text message to me on December 27, 2012.
[I’m not surprised. It’s that smile on her face all the time.—Joe]
Christmas has a strong tendency to irritate me. I get grumpy and depressed.
This year is particularly bad. There are some things still unresolved that I don’t want to talk about and there are some really bad things going down.
I have three first cousin’s. They are my mom’s brother’s children. Larry was always the closest to me. He was closer in age and very smart and funny. Cousin Larry died day before yesterday on Christmas Eve.
Just a few days ago while I was in Idaho I learned he went into hospice care a few miles from where I live in the Seattle area. I planned to visit after I got back. Perhaps today or tomorrow. Then I got an email from Larry’s brother that he died as my brothers, Dad, and I were driving home from visiting my mom in the rehab center on Christmas Eve.
Mom broke her hip a couple weeks ago and needs extra care and therapy after the surgery. She also has Alzheimer’s.
A couple hours ago I got an email that Mom has been transferred to the emergency room. A little while later a follow up call and email gave me more details. She had a mild heart attack, there is fluid in her lungs, and she is having difficulty breathing.
There were some really nice things that happened too but this is turning out to be a “Christmas to remember.”
In or out of context, it’s a memorable one;
“Standin’ by your man ain’t doin’ him no favors when what he needs is a rehab clinic.”
Seen here.
Anyway you look at it, or if you change “man” to “woman” it works great. Ideally though, standin’ by your man, or woman, would be doing both of you a favor, but how often is that actually the case?
You are just so hot when you carry a rifle. Isn’t that weird?
Barb L.
December 15, 2012
[This was when I had just come back from a “Practical Rifle” match.
Yup. That’s weird alright. But I’m okay with it.–Joe]
It has been nearly two years since I went to a gun show and I decided today was a good time to go look around again. The first table I looked at was selling bulk food (hard red wheat, beans, lentils, and corn) in plastic buckets appropriately prepared and sealed for long term storage. Since we grow and clean lentils on the farm I decided to ask if they were interested in buying direct from me. It turns out I could sell delivered product to them for $0.10/pound less than what they were currently paying. They ordered 1000 pounds on the spot!
I also picked up a couple of stickers that I’m considering putting on my vehicle:
After Thanksgiving dinner brothers Doug, Gary, Dad, and Uncle Darrell and I went for a drive and looked at various things at the place where Dad and Uncle Darrell had grown up. We then went for a drive “around the loop” to see other old landmarks Doug wanted some historical discussion on. I took video of most of the discussion about the place my grandfather and great uncle used to own.
When we were driving around we saw a herd of about a dozen whitetail deer. I had enough time to put on my telephoto lens and take some pictures. It’s interesting to see the deer in motion stopped by the camera:
On November 11th Barb L. and I went on a hike to Wallace Falls. As usual it was an interesting hike. The falls are very pretty. The elevation gain is 1200 feet which is noticeable but not extreme. The trail starts out very wide and easy but gradually gets more difficult. Plan on spending about a half day to get in, enjoy the view, and back out. It takes about two hours each direction. A little than that getting in and a little less getting out if you don’t spend too much time resting and admiring the view. Take water (we didn’t and were sorry) and perhaps a snack.
On the way out my left knee started aching (from old tennis injuries) and it required some ibuprofen for a few days afterward.
This is in the Cascades and the area gets a lot of rainfall. I took some pictures of the moss to which Barb exclaimed, “Super Moss!” Yeah, I guess you could say that:
The trail goes beyond the upper falls but hikers are strongly cautioned to be prepared if you continue:
There were of course other interesting things to take pictures of: