He must have known I was an hour’s drive away.  He showed up at the house yesterday when I wasn’t here.  He knew that for every tear he causes my daughter I cause a drop of his blood to be spilled.  I’ve been watching very closely and haven’t seen any tears yet.  She’s sad, but not crying (at least when I have seen it).  She’s an extremely stoic person.  I should have told him a drop of blood for every frown…